Wife Admits to Husband That She Could Potentially Cheat on Him, Starts Debate About Infidelity

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Ally Perry • Writer and Editor
Nov 5, 2023 5:00 PM EST

It's not difficult to start an argument about relationships on the internet. Combine that with an element of betrayal, and you've got yourself a powder keg that's ready to blow up the discourse. 

Cheating is the kind of topic that inspires a visceral reaction in a lot of people, whether they've been on the receiving end of it or not. Few enjoy the idea that their beloved partner would betray their trust in such a way. Still, it's a pretty common thing to happen. We don't necessarily benefit by not talking about it.

This seemed to be the logic behind a recent viral video, in which a man asked his wife if she'd ever cheat on him. Admitting that she thought it could be possible, her detailed explanation prompted some mixed reactions from Twitter. It's fair to say that a lot of viewers felt like she had hit a nerve. 

 

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    Amber Takahashi @ambertakahashi Love her answer bc it highlights the beauty of continuing to intentionally choose each other.. Follow
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    ladidai go to @... @ladidaix Follow Replying to @ambertakahashi it honestly varies person to person. i never felt inclined to cheat just cuz i was around another guy
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    Lex Flex Replying to @ambertakahashi Girl just say no @Lexomillion 22 Oct ●
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    Terrill OVO @TerrillCharming • 23 Oct Replying to @ambertakahashi "She said put me in the room with another man alone and I'll fold." Y'all ate that up? lol
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    Brenda @therealbjeanv3 Follow Replying to @ambertakahashi Honestly. I've never even wanted to cheat. And I've worked places where I was with guys one on one. If I'm with the guy it's because I want to be. I don't get wandering eye. I'm like yeah sure he's objectively attractive but what I've built with this man, their heart, and my integrity is more important to me.
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    XEPHIROXY @XephiroX_ Follow Replying to @ambertakahashi The whole speech wasn't really needed. But she's so real for that
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    Glo @violettelash - 22 Oct Replying to @ambertakahashi I work in a field that often has all or mostly men and I have to socialize and often drink. It never makes me want to cheat. This is an odd mentality to have
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    Althea "The Queen" @iamthequeen87 Follow Replying to @ambertakahashi All of this. Cheating is absolutely a choice
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    Angelia @ImAngelia - 21 Oct Replying to @ambertakahashi The way she expresses intentionality and is straight up about it is refreshing, I respect it.
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    Kenpachi Azi @Kyng_Azi 22 Oct Replying to @ambertakahashi Never think anyone is above doing anything. That's real. You make a choice everyday to stay faithful im glad she's aware of the potential pitfalls and chooses to steer clear away from them.
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    Chad Johnson @ochocinco - 23 Oct All you had to say was no, giving a dissertation means you folding based on circumstance.
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    user @user84829272 23 Oct ● You can tell she's already cheated. Her eyes are so shifty while talking about this
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    P @raisintinybabes 23 Oct Yes-boundaries are very important when you're married. But also, infidelity is about more than just having the opportunity. It's a conscious decision you make. If all it takes is one moment alone w a man to cheat.. then you're just a cheater Imao.
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    Ava. @FayFay_M - 23 Oct If you cannot coexist with other people at the fear of being unfaithful then maybe you have a problem. You can still have healthy relationships with other people and have boundaries. This is how people end up in unhealthy controlling relationships because your partner can't have
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    Ava. @FayFay_M • 23 Oct Replying to @FayFay_M Any other relationships without you thinking they're cheating.
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    Sarah @_sarah_rose_22 23 Oct Sorry but this is insane lol if the only thing keeping you from cheating on your partner is lack of opportunity, maybe you shouldn't be in a monogamous relationship with that person. Just a thought!
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    Poe's Law, Esq: Po... @dyingscribe Follow This is clearly scripted and fake for views but I love the concept. This is purposeful and intentional. It's not grandstanding for morality. It's an awareness that we're not perfect but we are doing our best to avoid anything that could hurt someone we love.
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    pumpkenna Barbie @mouseabolition Follow if i was married to the kind of man who turned a camera on me to ask questions like this the second i got the baby to nap, i too would be (1) conversation away from cheating
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    ++. Delilah.+. @fairyartmother I don't feel the same way personally, but I think I understand her answer. For her it's an active decision not to cheat, for others it's a passive almost automatic decision. Even though I disagree, I like that she's direct about her reasoning. Follow
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    0 Ree @Moanerleaser 22 Oct If you don't trust YOURSELF not to cheat when with other people, boy have I got news for you!
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    xelita @alteritxs • 22 Oct while in a relationship, I've gone out drinking, slept in the same bed, & gone on trips with my guy friends. i've never cheated & my friends have never tried anything. cheating is a decision.
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    Jordan Sumbu @Jordan Sumbu Follow There's a difference between having boundaries and being ridiculous. If talking or hanging out with someone else other than your partner makes you feel like you're putting yourself in a situation where you'll be tempted to cheat, then you've got deeper issues.
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    Fiery Fraulein @germanmambaaa Follow The comments and quotes prove to me that a lot of y'all mf lack comprehension skills. The question is "COULD you cheat on me" not "WILL". And she's right ANYONE is capable to cheat, but WOULD they. Y'all are so stupid Imfao.
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    1am sarah @PISSSARAH • 22 Oct a freak it shouldn't take this much outta you not to cheat idk. cheaters love to phrase infidelity in such a way that it's something that happened to them and they had no agency in the matter lol
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